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Be happy!

How alone are you? time lets you feel that! Songs can make you feel happy and balanced, but you will still feel the same. No one makes you feel what you really want to be. Time is hard to pass by, but difficult to get along with it once it's gone. Individuals want to do each and everything of the world and eventually things become extremely confusing for them after some point of time. But even then we don't stop! We are stupid that we prefer worldly affairs over our own issues. What is happiness for you? Do you really know? If I should say, then we don't know a fucking single word about happiness. What we know is that we are just following a stupid race, where we are putting aside our original ideas of living a good life and are just following someone else's principles to make our life better than others. 

                What kind of stupid thing is this? I feel shame on each one of us. Why don't we follow our inner self? What do we need to pay for our happiness? Nothing, but living a life of our own! Nothing else. Alas! We don't do that and we expect our life to be fair enough to make us as happy as much we want to be, but this is not fair. We have to play our game and we have to trust our future and on our chosen paths. Are we afraid to do that?

              I am not happy and I accept that? Can you all accept your state of happiness, If not then you all have to and that too now? You all have to hear your inner values and determination, your real happiness, your world where feelings are your best buddies and characters are not artificial.  We have to stop following others to make ourselves happy and we have to follow others to get the world of real happiness if anyone capable of doing that. But even then if you are weak enough to follow others to choose their paths for your own happiness, then sorry, but this is extremely stupid to think and then execute! It's really sad.

            Everything selfish we do is a part of our unhappiness because we are becoming selfish to get our things done first and we don't even care about others. Our search for our own happiness is creating differences between us and others. We have to take care of that. Life is not all about getting everything as I said earlier. It is also about moments, it is about parents, friends, about creating a journey of experiences than a journey of just wishes and voracity.We have to think deep and stop chasing happiness of others and lives of others. We have to be self-created and that need a happy world around. What really matters is happiness about living a life to the fullest. We have to let ourselves free and to see the world in our own way. We have to be strong enough to take things normally that are genuine in reality, but others make them aberrant for us to even think about. We have to say sorry to them and lead our life, a way we really want to. We have to be like a bird who wants to be free, whose life is not about tautness, but of experiences and of new journeys. We can do everything, only when we are not being forced to do so and when we are really happy to create our own universe. Then who is stopping you? So be it and take a lead! Life is for you and it's waiting! 

Go grab it :)



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